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A Moment with...Dr. David
Berman
Dr. David Berman has one of the easiest, friendliest
manners you will ever come across in a plastic surgeon.
He has a way of immediately making you feel comfortable
like you've lived down the street from him for years. He
is best known as the surgeon who helped John Wayne Bobbitt
through a certain well-known trauma. Dr. Berman has performed
hundreds of breast augmentations in his twelve years of
private practice and his schedule gets busier with each
passing month. A great sense of humor and an obvious love
for his craft come through in the following exchange.
BI411: What originally interested you in plastic
surgery?
Dr. Berman: Plastic surgery is fascinating, because
it's an interesting mix of following basic principals and
then using your own individual techniques and ideas; mixing
hard science and artistry. It's ironic; my wife is very
artistic and I can't paint or draw, but she says "You're
essentially doing the same thing, you're just using people".
BI411: What should a woman expect from her first
consultation with you?
Dr. Berman: My first consults are actually very
extensive. I'll ask them initial questions about their health
and any particular medical problems they have and then I'll
ask them questions related to their breasts; when they had
their last mammogram, any family history of breast cancer
and so on. The next step would be to examine them and take
pictures and measurements. The photos do not show their
face. Of course, and there's always another woman in the
room with them, whether it's my office manager or a nurse.
I'll let them get dressed and get comfortable and then I'll
spend another half hour going over every facet of the operation;
everything they'll need to know about breast augmentation,
so when they leave the consult, every question on their
list has been answered. It's extraordinarily rare that someone
would come up with a question that I haven't already answered.
They'll walk away as mini-experts on augmentation. I spend
a full 45 minutes with them; it's the longest consult in
my practice. I go through a tremendous amount of detail
with them.
BI411: Do you prepare them for the emotional ups
and downs they may go through?
Dr. Berman: I touch on it. In my practice, I've
had very little post-operative depression; there's always
a little bit of anxiety, but I've never had a patient that
wasn't thrilled with the results. I do tell them that it's
normal to swell. The swelling is always disproportionately
in the superior aspect and it takes time to get your final
shape. They're mentally prepared for that; I really do take
them through things very extensively; we'll talk about the
post-operative discomfort and what they can do to alleviate
it. I keep in very close touch with them; I talk to them
virtually every day in the post-operative period. They're
really hand-held through the process so I've had very few
problems with patients being unexpectedly upset or disappointed.
BI411: Are there any particular procedures or techniques
you favor over others?
Dr. Berman: Virtually 100% of my augmentations are
put behind the muscle. I almost never put them above the
muscle. I feel the results are better going below the muscle
in the long term. I always use saline implants. Beyond that,
you have to customize; some women need a lift, some don't,
some women need a simple lift, some a more complicated lift
(mastopexy) and that's really a function of their body shape.
A lot of times they'll combine other things they want to
have done. It's not uncommon to have a breast augmentation
and a liposuction carried out at the same time.
BI411: For a lot of exotic dancers, unusually large
breasts are almost like a uniform. When a woman comes in
looking for very large implants, but she tells you it's
part of how she makes her money, do you try to talk her
out of the decision, or do you grant her wishes?
Dr. Berman: In my twelve years, I've had strippers
and dancers come in and they've all been pretty reasonable
in what they wanted. Someone once emailed me who wanted
1200cc implants which are just humongous and I didn't reply.
To a large extent, I feel I'm a technician and my job is
to satisfy the desires of my patient. I don't feel it's
my decision to say if they should be bigger or smaller;
I'm really providing a service for the individual. As long
as it's within normalcy, I wouldn't have a problem. If it's
something extreme, I'd have to deal with that on an individual
basis.
BI411: You're famous as the surgeon who put John
Wayne Bobbitt back together. How did you originally get
the call for that?
Dr. Berman: It was pretty unexciting, actually.
I was relatively new to the area at the time when it occurred.
I was one of the only people in the area who are skilled
in microsurgery. Even though I wasn't on call they asked
me to come in and review the case. It requires rather specialized
training. I was quite surprised that it captured the world's
attention like it did. I thought it would be talked about
around the hospital and forgotten the next day. It caught
the local media and then caught the world's attention and
snowballed into a huge media circus that lasted for over
a year.
Even the Washington Post had some little blurb about Bobbitt
almost every day for a year. In Newsweek he was mentioned
five weeks in a row! It was pretty incredible; it wasn't
just Howard Stern, the mainstream media was carrying it
extensively as well.
BI411: Was there any doubt at the time that it would
ever work again?
Dr. Berman: In terms of it working, I had never done
one or seen it done. Until you release the tourniquet and
see the blood flow, you don't know if it's going to work,
so that was a tense moment. I had no idea how long it would
take or if he'd ever get function back, so that was a pleasant
surprise that it worked so well and so quickly. Even though
I went through an extremely good training program, we never
encountered that trauma. Fortunately, it's a pretty rare
injury in our society. It was really learning as I went
along.
BI411: After all was said and done, did you get
similar cases because of the publicity?
Dr. Berman: My wife and I actually talked about
that and we thought there would be a lot of copycat crimes,
since that's the nature of society, but in reality, no.
There was one similar instance out in L.A., but that was
it, fortunately. We kept joking around that I'd get some
surreptitious call in the middle of the night by somebody
with similar circumstances and needed me to help them out,
but it never happened!
BI411: What do you think of the Internet as a form
of referral compared to word of mouth?
Dr. Berman: I get a fair bit of business from the
Internet (www.bermancosmeticsurgery.com).
There's nothing that's going to beat work of mouth; if your
best friend had a good experience with a doctor, that's
always going to win over a referral website that specializes
in breast augmentation or liposuction. Having said that,
it certainly does generate business. The great advantage
is the women that come to me from a website most of the
time have been given information that is quite accurate.
The patient can come in fairly well informed. I think the
Internet is important, but I don't think the Internet will
ever replace the referral of a satisfied patient.
BI411: With a career as time and mind consuming
as plastic surgery, how do you find balance between your
career and a personal life? Do you have personal past-times?
Dr. Berman: I think you'll find in general, most
plastic surgeons have a life outside of medicine. I've got
four little kids; they're 4, 6, 9 and 10, and two big dogs,
a German Shepard and an English Mastiff. I also do a lot
of martial arts. I do one style called Thai boxing and another
called Brazilian Ju-Jitsu. I'm very interested in physical
fitness. I spend four sessions a week in martial arts. I'm
no Bruce Lee, but it keeps me from getting old and fat!
I'm the second oldest person in Thai boxing and the oldest
in Ju-Jitsu. The people I'm dealing with are in their 20's
for the most part. It's a great group of people and they
really push me to the limits. It's a good stress breaker
because I come home tired and then I go to one of these
very, very intense physical classes for an hour and a half
and it perks me up.
BI411: Do you bring any of this to your practice?
Do you talk to the women about the physical fitness they're
maintaining in terms of the healing process after the operation?
Dr. Berman: I talk to them about what they can do
and what they can't do and how quick they can get back to
exercise after liposuction and tummy tucks. I've done a
lot of fitness instructors and exercise buffs, so we definitely
talk about those aspects. It's a very important issue for
them.
BI411: If you could dispel one myth about plastic
surgery, what would that be?
Dr. Berman: The public perception that a significant
number of women get plastic surgery for somebody other than
themselves. From my experience, 99.99% of the women I see,
whether it's for breast augments, lipo, blepharoplasty,
or any other operation, they're doing it for themselves.
In the vast majority of the cases, the husband, boyfriend
or significant other, is at most moderately supportive and
a lot of times fairly neutral. You want the husband or boyfriend
to say, "Look, I love you whether you have big breasts
or small breasts, or big hips or small hips, it doesn't
matter to me, so why bother?" Therefore it is a very
personal decision for the woman.
The other myth is that this is some unhealthy urge that
women are pushed into by society. I sometimes think of cosmetic
surgery like changing your clothing. Looks aren't everything,
but they can help make us feel good about ourselves. If
somebody has a feature that isn't desirable, I don't see
it as obsessive to want to correct it. Nowadays, it's very
easy and quite safe to correct. It's not that much different
than if you spent the money buying a nice outfit to make
you look good, except that this is the outfit that you always
wear because this is your body.
BI411: We find more and more women who come to our
site searching for plastic surgeons are taking into account
the age of the doctor, and are favoring younger surgeons
over the more standard axiom of "looking for twenty
or thirty years of experience". Do you feel it's because
they may feel younger doctors may keep more up to date on
technologies, or perhaps because they're doing their research
on the web in the privacy of their own homes, there's a
possible fantasy factor- since this is such an intimate
operation that deals directly with her sexuality. Do you
have any views on why many women prefer younger doctors
these days?
Dr. Berman: Two things come to mind. One, you do
want someone who is up to date and the other thing is it's
really a question of relationship. I wouldn't put quite
the same spin that you put on it, but it's nice if you can
have a rapport with your surgeon, where you're comfortable.
Each surgeon has his own style. I'm very professional, but
I'm also less formal. I'm still called Doctor Berman, but
I don't always wear a tie. My whole manner is a little bit
more relaxed and I have found patients feel comfortable
with my style. It's nice if you can talk to your doctor.
It may be easier to do that with someone who's in their
30's or early 40's rather than someone in their late 50's
or 60's.
BI411: Does the Bravabra work?
Dr. Berman: In all fairness, I have no experience
with it. I'm extraordinarily skeptical that it's going to
be even a quarter as successful as the advertisements are
suggesting.
BI411: Any thoughts on endoscopic surgery for breast
augmentation?
Dr. Berman: I think it has little use for breast
augmentation. I do use endoscopy for forehead lifts and
other surgeries, but not for breast augmentation. It's not
that it can't be done, there are surgeons publishing results
that seem reasonable. There has to be a higher complication
rate and the scars on the breast from standard surgeries
heal so well that I think it's a technique waiting for a
reason to be created. I think it's really a marketing tool.
BI411: One of the most disturbing trends in the
last few years has been the rise of non-board certified
doctors like dentists, ENT's and dermatologists practicing
plastic surgery in their own operating rooms without being
properly trained.
Dr. Berman: One of the things that are so unfair
to the public is the misconception of who actually is a
plastic surgeon. The term "plastic surgery" is
essentially trademarked. You can't call yourself a "plastic"
surgeon unless you are certified by the American Society
of Plastic Surgeons. What you can call yourself is a "cosmetic
surgeon". In the public's mind, people just believe
that a cosmetic surgeon is a board certified plastic surgeon.
It's unfortunate, because even in the Yellow Pages, people
see all the listings in the plastic surgeon section and
just accept that they're all board certified, when over
half the people in there are not. That's the very first
question people should ask when they see a surgeon, but
they usually don't.
BI411: What breakthroughs do you see in the future
of plastic surgery?
Dr. Berman: The trend is to get more and more natural
rejuvenations. There's a real concern amongst younger plastic
surgeons to try to make the patient look more like themselves
and remain natural. One of the big flaws from the 70's people
who have had umpteen plastic surgeries and now look very
unnatural. So there's certainly a trend in trying to be
natural and use more and more subtle techniques to achieve
it.
Also, in the reconstructive field, with all this tissue
cloning, it's only a matter of time until people are able
to clone tissue parts that are missing. So if you're missing
your ear due to trauma, they will be able to take cells
and clone a perfect genetic match for your ear.
BI411: Do you see a time when plastic surgeons will
become genetic engineers?
Dr. Berman: It's certainly going to be interactive.
As things get more and more specialized you'll probably
have people that are in charge of cell development, then
next person will take those cells and create an organ and
put it back in the body.
You can't help but like Dr. Berman. Hundreds of women have
trusted him with this most intimate of surgeries and come
away with heightened self-esteem and a new life-long friend.
Call him at (703) 406-2444 and take that first step toward
a new you.
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