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teresa34
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2673 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  13:52:28  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
for divorce. I asked around for a good attorney and am meeting with her next week to file.
For those of you who've been around a while, you KNOW how I've struggled with this decision. Tried counseling. After 22 years.
Wish me luck, or something. He's going to flip when he gets the paper...
45 y/o
Separated
Two children, 22yo son, 18yo daughter. Both breastfed a long time ago!
132# 5'4 1/2" (2# is the boobs!;-)
31.5" ribcage
Pre BA: 36A (empty socks!)
10/29/2007: BA and removal of extra tummy skin
Mentor Mod. Smooth Round Saline unders 425cc f/t 475. L & R
Post BA: 34DD
Periareolar incisions.
Dr. Robert Louton
www.blairplasticsurgery.com
Edited by - teresa34 on 09/06/2009 21:27:08

J-mama
Advanced Member

6637 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  13:55:16  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Goodluck girl! Does he know its coming? How is your son doing?
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Not sure
Advanced Member

5680 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  13:55:45  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Good luck! I hope it goes well for you.

It's not having what you want, it's wanting what you've got. - Sheryl Crow

http://www.bagalleries.com/main.php?g2_itemId=202
Married with three breastfed boys
5'7" 160 lbs, 36" Rib cage
Pre-38B Post-36DDD
BA 4/19/06 Dr Paulson Bismark,ND.
650 cc, moderate profile, unders

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2889 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  13:55:53  Show Profile  Reply with Quote



good luck hun
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4438 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  13:57:03  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Fine~Design




good luck hun


ditto
October 9, 2008
500 CC Silicon under the muscle
Pre BA: Saggy 38 C
Post BA: 36F
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Scootie123
Advanced Member

6079 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  13:57:19  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
That's never easy. Good luck.
Pre BA / small 34B
Post BA / 32DD/34D
RC 28"
BA 2/5/07
Mentor Smooth / Round / Mod + / Saline
unders / crease / 400cc ft 480cc
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texascrazydaisy30
Senior Member

USA
1165 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  14:04:54  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
But it's worth it in the end.....PROMISE
~Kari~
Age: 33 (yea me!)
3 b/f Kids
5'2"
130lbs
Surgery Date: 3/5/09
Pre ba: 34A
Post ba: 34F
Mentor Smooth Rnd,Mod+ 550CC
Dr. Gonce
www.twitter.com/thekarikirkland
http://bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=97712
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roseyhebert
Advanced Member

USA
3261 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  14:06:08  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
It was the best thing I ever did for myself. When it's not going to work, nothing can fix it. Sorry you have to go through this. I just did it early this year.
Age: 29
Surgery date: 11/20/07
PreBA: 36B
PostBA: 36DD?
Mentor Round, Moderate profile 425's - Right f/t 450 and left to 475, full unders
5'9" at 135lbs.
http://www.bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=64913
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Sandra D
Advanced Member

USA
3689 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  14:23:54  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I remember lil of your story~

but i wish you all the best.
Sometimes it really is what is 'best'.
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CCBondgirl
Senior Member

USA
1735 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  14:40:14  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Good luck.

Divorce is soo hard. but when it's o v e r the feeling of relief is wonderful!
http://www.bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=93499
4 Children 2 Breastfed(1 for 14 months)

Age:49
Height: 5'3" Weight: 104
Ribcage: 27 1/2
BWD: 13
Mentor 350cc saline mod + unders 12/03/08
Before:34 A
After 34D - 32DD
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teresa34
Advanced Member

2673 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  14:58:50  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Thanks ladies! No, he doesn't KNOW it's coming and I'm NOT telling him. I'm timing it so it's after school starts for my 17 year old dd. He'll have started school by that time too. Lost his job six months ago and is going to school. He NEVER even tried to look for another job. Things have just deteriorated so badly. Even after several counseling sessions he's been texting and calling his "friend" (a woman he used to work with that is 17 years younger than him). Oh and J-mama, my son is fine. He's been back from Russia since May and is starting his senior year in college. Thanks for asking The kids won't be surprised at all, and actually might be relieved. I feel sick to the stomach
45 y/o
Separated
Two children, 22yo son, 18yo daughter. Both breastfed a long time ago!
132# 5'4 1/2" (2# is the boobs!;-)
31.5" ribcage
Pre BA: 36A (empty socks!)
10/29/2007: BA and removal of extra tummy skin
Mentor Mod. Smooth Round Saline unders 425cc f/t 475. L & R
Post BA: 34DD
Periareolar incisions.
Dr. Robert Louton
www.blairplasticsurgery.com
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riding2high
Matron

395 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  15:06:30  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
make copies of all your bank statements and anything you can get your hands on of his, credit card reciepts, copies of the phone bills with the numbers he's texting. Information is power in these situations.
anchor lift/ba 6/09
implant swap and revision 12/09
donut lift 3/10
34 FF
Left: 492 cc
Right: 500 cc
silicone mod +

http://www.bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=104781
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ArmyGrrl
Advanced Member

4527 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  15:13:32  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Sorry to hear this, but i think you need to do what's best for you, and it sounds like what's best for your family, even if they are older kids.
44
divorced;1 DD (BF 8 months)
5'4"; 145 lbs; RC: 32"
Pre-BA: 36 A
Post-BA: FULL 36D! (took 6+ months, 2 years later I'm "almost a DD")
BA - July 9, 2007
Mentor Moderate + profile; 375cc's; sub-pectoral placement - partially under muscle
Dr. Michael F. Chiaramonte MD/Washington DC Area http://bellacosmeticsurgery.com/
http://www.bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=52574
BA at 3 weeks...BA at 6 weeks...BA at 13 weeks...5 months ..SweetHearts!...Look Ma! No bra! It's been one year! With the right bra - luv my big fakies!
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foxglove
Advanced Member

Canada
2388 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  15:45:13  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Good luck. I know how hard it can be to make the steps towards ending a marriage, but sometimes you need to do what is best for you and your children. All the best as you embark on the next chapter of your life

Age: 29
5"9 145lbs
Pre BA - ???
Post BA - 34D
BA Date - June 27th, 2008
left 400cc right 500cc, saline unders
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MIKESWIFE
Advanced Member

USA
3802 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  16:19:24  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I can imagine how hard it can be. Hang in there! Im sure its for the best.
Married Valentine's Day 2007!!

~25~
5'4
120 LBS
600CC HP SILICONE UNDERS 6-16-08

http://www.bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=88958
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kikidoll
Advanced Member

5118 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  17:56:21  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
im sorry teresa.



(TREASURE CHEST)
5'5" 117 lbs
31 yrs young
1st ba 275 saline mods 1/03
2nd ba 420 sils mods 8/07
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DHuck
Advanced Member

2622 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  18:01:31  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
uuugggghhhh, I wish we could fast forward 6 months for you. Good luck.
5'4"
120 lbs
34A/small B pre BA
34D post BA
325 cc silicone overs
June 12, 2007
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kate62
Advanced Member

3673 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  18:43:17  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
A big hug for you.

Not easy, been there, not easy.

Feel free to pm me. Remember, life is short, you will survive. It may not be easy all the time but you will make it!


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Alexis317
Advanced Member

2010 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  19:06:47  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I'm sorry. I wish you much strength as you move forward in the next weeks and months. Keep your resolve and get support from friends and family when you need it.

((HUGS))
40 yrs
5'3, 112 lbs. BWD: 12cm RC: 27
married: 3 girls
Pre-BA: 34A (probably should have been wearing a 32A)
PostBA: 32D/32DD but look like a Full B/C depending on what I wear
Inamed Style 15 silicone 304cc mod+
BA: 11/15/07


http://www.bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=54591
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Goldie
Advanced Member

2412 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  19:09:52  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I've been there, too. Sometimes it was just a matter of putting one foot in front of the other.
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The Mrs
Advanced Member

5192 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  19:16:24  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
When I'm going through something rough I just try to take one day at a time. That's all you really can do.

Best of luck to you Teresa, you are such a nice woman and you deserve to be happy and treated well!
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lashyja82
Advanced Member

Jamaica
9175 Posts
Posted - 08/20/2009 :  20:04:24  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Wow Teresa, I am so sorry you're going through this. Many people would hold onto a bad marriage because it's been so long. You're very brave to do this *hug*
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teresa34
Advanced Member

2673 Posts
Posted - 08/21/2009 :  07:01:54  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Again thanks ladies! I really do appreciate it and DO DREAD the coming months. With that said, I cannot allow the rest of my life languish in this non existent marriage. I'm too young. My stomach has been knotted up since I called the attorney yesterday. I really do get the one day at a time thing because my mind is spinning thinking of all the repercussions. He cannot possibly be surprised, and despite all the talking and warnings, he would not change his behaviors.
45 y/o
Separated
Two children, 22yo son, 18yo daughter. Both breastfed a long time ago!
132# 5'4 1/2" (2# is the boobs!;-)
31.5" ribcage
Pre BA: 36A (empty socks!)
10/29/2007: BA and removal of extra tummy skin
Mentor Mod. Smooth Round Saline unders 425cc f/t 475. L & R
Post BA: 34DD
Periareolar incisions.
Dr. Robert Louton
www.blairplasticsurgery.com
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Mansruin
Advanced Member

USA
5062 Posts
Posted - 08/21/2009 :  07:29:09  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
good luck. stay strong
5'10" 161 lbs
Married
12/06/07 With Dr. Kim
pre BA: 36 B
Post: 36 DD
475 L / 550 R
Saline Mentor Mods unders, TUBA

http://www.bagalleries.com/index.php?option=com_gallery2&Itemid=23&g2_itemId=71077&g2_GALLERYSID=49bae2898a9f0e4822223f3613cea23a
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minnie1228
Senior Member

1883 Posts
Posted - 08/21/2009 :  07:44:15  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Good luck.
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tinam
Senior Member

1684 Posts
Posted - 08/21/2009 :  08:00:07  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Good luck!!
40 5'4
Married 18 yrs to my best friend
2 kids - 19 and 13
Pre BA - 34A
Post BA - 34 D woohoo!!
Saline, smooth,under muscle, armpit,420 CC
2/19/08
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