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Breast Augmentation and
Employment
by Astrid
Hello to all the women
that are contemplating breast augmentation or have already had the procedure done.
I know you may all be wondering about the perception of family, friends and strangers.
Since my breast augmentation, I went from one high profile job to another so I
may have a bit of insight for you as to what others are going to think.
Prior to teaching which is what I do now, I was a juvenile parole officer working
with youth that have been incarcerated for crimes. Both are jobs in which others
look at you and judge you on your opinion. When I returned to work (at the time
I was employed as a juvenile parole officer), many people did not ask or bother
me about my “new” appearance. Actually, so long as I didn’t say anything or “show
them off”, no one really asked me or commented on my augmentation.
Now, I am a 4th grade teacher for one of the largest urban school districts in
The United States. I have to say that since no one knew me before, it was quite
an advantage going in there. Thus far, no one has asked or assumed anything. I
truly believe that they think I am naturally a larger breasted woman which amazes
me since I am 5’10”, 140lbs, and a 34 full D cup! You would assume that they would
start to think about this but they don’t. Many of you may be teachers and know
well how a school is a rumor mill. Thus far, I have managed to keep my name out
of the spotlight.
There is also the topic of family and friends. Well, fortunately for me, I have
a great group of friends and family. I can honestly tell you that I did not experience
any stress when I told them. At first, my father was a bit apprehensive but after
all, he was the one that noticed that my breasts stretched down to my stomach
from having lost weight. You may wonder, “How do I go about approaching people
about this very private topic?” All I can truly tell you is to be honest and discuss
your reason for contemplating this procedure. Have you mind full of facts. Discuss
the details of this procedure and the risks involved. Just as you educate yourself,
educate your loved ones. Make them understand that you are not trying to change
your life by filling out your breasts alone, but that it may be a tool to help
you on the way- after all we do need help!
I always made it clear that I wanted this procedure for myself. I always stated
what I thought it might help me achieve. I don’t think that my augmentation has
really “changed” who I am but only enhanced me. I found that I cared more about
my body and taking care of myself. I made sure that I stayed with my workout routine
so as to not look at my augmentation as a “fix-it-all” solution. I believe that
by filling out my badly deflated chest, that my body was FINALLY complete.
Lastly, others have looked at me differently. I cannot say that it is because
of the new, bigger breasts or if I just carry myself a bit differently. Maybe
I have a bit more confidence which makes me stand taller. Maybe they are a bit
larger than normal and that is what others see first. Personally, I think that
I stand tall, look others in the eye, and stand my ground a bit firmer than before.
Sure, the clothes help a bit (wink, wink) but I truly think that it comes from
within. I have noticed more doors being opened for me, more cuts in the grocery
line when I have only a few items but I also notice the same courtesy when I am
in my car, driving down the freeway when others cannot see my larger chest. So,
that leaves me to conclude that I have just become a bit more aggressive in the
sense that I stand tall and do not let anyone intimidate me any more.
Overall, this is one of the best decisions I have ever made for myself besides
finally finding the man of my dreams, Todd (hehe). I truly feel much better about
my WHOLE body rather than thinking “only if.” Please make sure to know that you
are doing this procedure for the right reasons, not the wrong reasons. Many others
and I may be able to list good reasons but only you will know when it is right
for you. Take your time and make sure to know your facts. Breast wishes and happy
hunting…
Astrid (aka The Boobie Fairy)
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